Couples Therapy That Helps You Find Your Way Back to Each Other. Real Support for Real Relationships
Evidence-based couples therapy for adults, teens, and children in Collegeville, Pennsylvania, and online across Pennsylvania.
Couples therapy for those feeling stuck in their relationship, distant from their partner, or looking for marriage counseling to help you build a stronger relationship.
Is Your Relationship Feeling the Strain?
Do you feel like you’re just going through the motions in your relationship? Some days, it feels like you’re just existing as roommates, not living as partners. You want to feel close to your partner again, but every attempt at connection seems to fall flat, or worse, spark another fight. All communication has broken down. Maybe you’ve even stopped trying to reconnect because the thought of another misunderstanding is just too much.
Whether you are looking for weekly couples therapy or interested in our Couple's Intensive Model, we're here for you and your partner.
Your relationship does not have to feel this hard. Let's get started.
Is Your Relationship Feeling the Strain?
Do you feel like you’re just going through the motions in your relationship? Some days, it feels like you’re just existing as roommates, not living as partners. You want to feel close to your partner again, but every attempt at connection seems to fall flat, or worse, spark another fight. All communication has broken down. Maybe you’ve even stopped trying to reconnect because the thought of another misunderstanding is just too much.
Whether you are looking for weekly couples therapy or interested in our Couple's Intensive Model, we're here for you and your partner.
Your relationship does not have to feel this hard. Let's get started.
Our Approach to Couple’s Counseling: Connection is the Intervention
We do not see one person as the problem. We see the negative cycle itself as the client. Our entire approach is designed to create the psychological safety required for both of you to step out from behind your walls.
The goal is not to eliminate conflict. Conflict is a normal part of life. The goal is to transform it. We want you to have the kind of arguments that lead to deeper understanding and intimacy, not greater distance.
This is not about finding blame. It is about fostering radical belonging within your most important relationship. It is about creating a secure bond where you both feel seen, heard, and cherished, not just for the parts of you that are easy to love, but for all of it.
• We Map the Pattern: We work with you to slow down the argument and see the cycle clearly. We look at what happens on the surface, the anger and withdrawal, and what is happening underneath, the attachment fears and unmet needs that are driving the conflict.
• We Focus on Attachment: At the heart of every conflict is a fundamental question: “Are you there for me?” We help you translate your anger and frustration into the vulnerable, underlying needs that are not being met. This is the language of connection.
• We Rebuild Safety: Lasting change is not about learning clever communication scripts. It is about rewiring the nervous system’s response to your partner. We help you learn to co-regulate, to become a source of safety and comfort for each other again, even in the middle of a disagreement.
It’s not about you versus me. It’s about us versus the pattern.
Wondering if couples therapy is the right move for you and your partner?
If…
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You have the same argument on a loop, with no resolution.
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You feel a growing distance, a sense of being lonely even when you are together.
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Physical or emotional connection feels hard to reach, or your relationship has become sex-less and you do not know how to talk about it.
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Trust has been damaged by infidelity, secrets, or broken promises.
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You struggle to communicate about sex, money, parenting, or the future.
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One or both of you is contemplating separation, but you are not ready to give up.
…let’s chat. You don’t have to live as roommates, or stuck in painful patterns forever.
The Therapists Who Help Couples Reconnect:
Meet the Couples Therapy Team
Our couples therapists help partners understand each other beyond the surface of conflict. Using approaches like Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) and Relational Life Therapy (RLT), they support couples in rebuilding trust, improving communication, and creating connections that last. Whether you are navigating disconnection, rebuilding after betrayal, or working through long-standing patterns, our team will meet you with honesty, compassion, and skill.
Lavi
Couples and Sex Therapist
Lavi works with couples who want to improve communication, intimacy, and connection both emotionally and physically. He integrates Emotionally Focused Therapy with sex therapy to help partners talk about desire, shame, and vulnerability in ways that feel safe and restorative. His work focuses on creating understanding, breaking old cycles, and helping couples reconnect with authenticity and pleasure. If you are looking for a therapist who is gentle, curious, and nonjudgmental and who brings warmth and balance to sensitive or often avoided conversations, Lavi is your guy.
Kristen
High-Conflict Couples (Intensives Only)
Kristen leads intensives for couples navigating deep ruptures, recurring conflict, or crisis points that weekly therapy cannot fully address. Drawing from Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) and Relational Life Therapy (RLT), she helps couples uncover the patterns driving disconnection, take accountability, and rebuild trust. Her approach is structured, direct, and compassionate, creating space for both truth and repair. If you are looking for a therapist who is grounded, clear, and deeply relational and who balances empathy with challenge to help couples do the real work of healing, Kristen is the therapist for you.
Sam
Couples Therapist
Sam supports couples in understanding the emotions and needs beneath conflict. She helps partners identify attachment patterns, practice vulnerability, and build emotional safety so that communication becomes connection rather than defense. Her work integrates Emotionally Focused Therapy and mindfulness to create steady progress toward closeness and understanding. If you are looking for a therapist who is warm, reflective, and grounding, and who encourages openness and empathy even in difficult moments, book a session with Sam.
Looking to explore a different way of approaching couples therapy?
coeo’s Couples Intensive is an immersive, focused, and accelerated form of couples therapy designed to create significant shifts in your relationship in a shorter timeframe.
How We Help Couples Heal and Reconnect
At coeo, our work with couples blends evidence-based methods with deep respect for the emotional and relational complexity that every partnership holds. We know that relationships are living systems, and the way you relate to each other is shaped by history, emotion, and environment. Our approach is rooted in safety, honesty, and connection. We draw from multiple therapeutic frameworks to help you both understand patterns, rebuild trust, and create lasting change.
EFT helps couples identify and change the negative cycles that fuel distance and conflict. It focuses on the emotions and attachment needs underneath arguments, helping each partner feel safe, understood, and valued again.
RLT combines compassion with direct feedback to help couples take responsibility for their part in the relationship dynamic. It offers practical tools for honesty, repair, and growth while helping partners move beyond blame into genuine accountability and connection.
Using insights from decades of research on successful relationships, these tools help couples improve communication, manage conflict constructively, and strengthen friendship, respect, and shared meaning.
Many couples carry unhealed wounds that shape how they relate. We help partners understand how past experiences influence current patterns so they can respond to each other with more empathy, awareness, and emotional regulation.
For couples struggling with desire, mismatched intimacy, or sexual disconnection, we integrate sex therapy to help partners talk about and explore intimacy safely and openly. These conversations can restore closeness, comfort, and connection.
Relationships do not exist in isolation. We consider the broader systems—family histories, cultures, beliefs, and life stressors—that impact your relationship. Understanding these contexts helps couples move toward more compassionate and sustainable change.
Because emotional connection lives in both the body and the mind, we use grounding, breathwork, and mindfulness practices to help partners stay present and regulated during difficult moments.
We tailor these methods to the needs and goals of your relationship, combining insight with action to help you reconnect, repair, and build a partnership that feels safe, authentic, and alive.
What Couples Therapy Looks Like at coeo:
A Space to Rebuild Trust and Safety in Your Relationship
Every couple is different, so we tailor our approach to your unique relationship dynamics and goals. For some couples that could look like breaking unhelpful cycles and establishing healthier patterns. For other couples we’ve helped them strengthen their communication so both partners feel heard and understood. And for others it means helping them rebuild trust and emotional intimacy, even after it’s been strained or seemingly broken.
During the first session, we’ll start by understanding your relationship, what’s working, what’s not, and what you hope to achieve through therapy. This is a time to lay everything out on the table and begin building trust with your therapist.
After that first session, we’ll explore key areas of your relationship, including communication, conflict resolution, and emotional connection. Using proven methods like Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) we’ll guide you through:
- Addressing recurring conflicts with healthier strategies.
- Rebuilding trust and intimacy, step-by-step.
- Learning to express your needs without fear or judgment.
Investing in your care
We operate as a private-pay practice, which means we choose to not bill insurance directly. Private pay aligns with our values and means we answer to you, not them. It means we can offer the personalized care you deserve. Longer sessions if needed, treatment plans that evolve with you, not with arbitrary session limits. No diagnoses weaponized in permanent records. No justifying your humanity to meet “medical necessity” criteria. Just real therapy, built around your actual needs.
We also provide superbills you can submit for out-of-network reimbursement, and help you navigate that process.
Learn more about the Benefits of Private Pay Therapy →
Reduced-Fee Options
We also hold a limited number of reduced-fee slots because we believe healing shouldn’t only be accessible to people with disposable income. If cost is a barrier, let’s talk. We’d rather work something out than have you go without the support you deserve. We also offer therapy with highly trained graduate interns at a reduced rate per session. This option provides more affordable access to care while offering interns strong clinical supervision and support.
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Let's Connect
You don’t need to have it all figured out. Just reach out and see what happens. Whether you’re seeking weekly therapy, a focused intensive, or aren’t quite sure what fits best, our team is here to guide you toward healing that feels human and connection that transforms.
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Collegeville Therapy & Telehealth
We offer in-person therapy located in Collegeville, Pennsylvania, in a calm and welcoming space designed to help you feel safe and comfortable. Free parking is available, and the building is accessible for clients with mobility needs.
If you prefer virtual therapy, we also offer telehealth sessions for clients anywhere in Pennsylvania through a secure, HIPAA-compliant platform. Virtual sessions are ideal for those with busy schedules, transportation challenges, or a preference for privacy and flexibility.
Wherever you are, coeo makes therapy accessible, connected, and personal.